On Conflicts

The start of a relationship is usually filled with excitement. This is quite common with all things new. As you begin to get to know each other, you move beyond the initial butterfly feelings. Boundaries are pushed and tested and suddenly, you must deal with the unpleasant side of your loved one. Your first disagreementContinue reading “On Conflicts”


Looking back, we both prayed some very intentional and specific prayers.  This is one area of our lives that I believe we were quite intentional about. Marriage is that important, when you take a moment to consider the long term commitment and the impact on generations unborn, you will know that you should spend timeContinue reading “P.R.A.Y”

Money Proof

Last week, we shared seven conditions that should be in place for money to work well in your marriage. 1. The right mindset2. It’s a we thing3. Let your money submit to your marriage4. Trust5. Playing to your strengths6. Have a money plan7. Respect irrespective of financial standing This week, we talk about the seasonsContinue reading “Money Proof”

First Flight

We love to travel; we both enjoy the planning process – scanning destinations and flights, hotels, restaurants and all. Most of all, I love the feeling of happiness that comes with going away from routine and resting from the hustle of daily life. Over the years, travelling anywhere has become our personal gift to ourselves.Continue reading “First Flight”

The Things That Matter

In a romantic candlelight dinner setting, knees on the ground and camera light flashing, he popped the question, “Will you marry me?” I said YES! Falling and being in love and all the niceties that come along with it can sometimes make us drift and forget the things that really matter. Today’s post is forContinue reading “The Things That Matter”


Someone asked for practical steps to become one in marriage, our answer to that question is captured by one word ‘Yielded‘. The dictionary defines the word ‘yield’ as to give way to someone or something that one can no longer resist. Other words that can be used in its place are submitted, surrender, defer, succumb, giveContinue reading “Yielded”